Je suis une feministe
I am a feminist.
I’ve been a feminist from the time I first understood what that word meant at about age 11. Most people who know me remember me as a fierce feminist who didn’t want to take her husband’s name, thought strict gender roles between married couples were outdated, and became a chemist because, fuck it, science is what I wanted to do all my life.
And there were people who definitely did not make it easy for me, the first girl, the first anyone in my family to go to college. But I got there, stumbled through it and did what I loved for 23 years.
It seems to me like it was more socially acceptable back in the late 70’s and early 80’s to be a feminist and boldly defend equal rights and opportunities. Because what woman in her right mind would want to roll us back to the 50’s? How could that possibly make sense in the 20th, now 21st, century? It was unthinkable. I still don’t understand how so many women have decided to embrace their second class status like it’s their right and voted in the most degrading, disrespectful misogynist in the country.
We’ve made a lot of progress but have still been largely locked out of the power offices. And that is about to hurt us in ways we can’t even imagine yet. Now, it’s more than thinkable.
I’d like to think that a Day Without Women will have an impact but I think we will have to peaceably assemble a lot more with our pink pussy hats on to get the attention that the majority of the world’s population deserves.
I’m at work today because I have to give a presentation and it couldn’t wait. I’m wearing my red sweater and my bright plummy red lipstick. I feel comfortable in my skin and never regretted my gender.
But I am seriously mad as hell about the recent turn of events.
I’m not going down without a fight.
“Women’s rights are human rights”
– Hillary Clinton.
Don’t forget to check out Lady V’s page UpholdTheseRights for latest updates on women’s rights.
If this ad from the last days of the 2016 campaign doesn’t make you angry about what we lost, then you aren’t paying attention.
Yeah, we could have had THAT.
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