Well, in the first place he is incredibly arrogant, haughty, full-of-himself, and entitled. He appears to have almost no empathy for other people. On the other hand, he is very good at using people as long as he wants something from them, and then throwing them under the bus when he no longer needs them. For starters, just ask Rev. Wright, Rev., Pfleger, the members of Trinity United Church of Christ, “former” advisors Samantha Power and Austen Goolsbee, Jim Johnson (former VP committe member), whoever created the “Great Possum Seal,” the “progressive” bloggers who supported him unstintingly for months, and his own grandmother. In fact Obama has added a new cliche to the American vernacular, “He (or she) wasn’t the person I once knew.”
A number of Conflucians have noted in comments that Obama is highly narcissistic. I’d say that’s an understatement. In fact, I would argue that he suffers from Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Personality disorders are enduring patterns in the way a someone perceives the world, relates to other people, and reacts to events. These behaviors are dysfunctional and affect a person’s functioning in many aspects of life.
NOTE: Approximately 75% of people diagnosed with NPD are men. Therefore, for the sake of convenience, I will refer to the narcissist as “he” and the narcissist’s partner as “she.”
Although people with NPD act haughty and entitled, on an unconscious level, they may actually have doubts about their own abilities, competence, and loveability. Because of this unconscious lack of self-esteem, they constantly need to see their own uniqueness and greatness reflected in the eyes of other people. They expect the people in their lives to provide them with what Sam Vankin calls “narcissistic supply,” meaning unstinting attention, admiration, and praise. People with NPD are often highly sensitive to criticism and they hate to lose. They may become enraged when they don’t get the admiration they expect or when they fail to live up to the high opinion they have of themselves. Because they envy people who are more successful than they are, they frequently believe that people are just as envious of them.
People with NPD can be superficially charming, and they seem to have a special radar that attracts people who are needy and dysfunctional and will gladly provide “narcissistic supply” in return for basking in the narcissist’s reflected glory. For most people, the veneer of the narcissist soon grows thin, and his arrogant, entitled behavior soon becomes annoying and drives them away. And if the narcissist’s significant other begins taking an interest in her own well being instead of focusing on meeting the narcissist’s needs for attention and approval, the narcissist will dump her with no compunctions or regrets.
According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of the American Psychiatric Association (DSM IV-TR), NPD is characterized by
A pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:
1. has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)
2. is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
3. believes that he or she is “special” and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)
4. requires excessive admiration
5. has a sense of entitlement, i.e., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations
6. is interpersonally exploitative, i.e., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends
7. lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others
8. is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him
9. shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes
Honestly, couldn’t a psychiatrist examining Barack Obama check off every item on the list? Let’s look at just a few examples.
1. has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)
To check off this item, a shrink would only have to look at the fact that Obama chose to run for POTUS with almost no relevevant qualifications or experience and with such a thin resume that he has barely ever held a full-time job (h/t Katiebird). He has based his presidential campaign on the fact that he was a “community organizer” in the 1980s (even though he had no tangible accomplishments), was president of the Harvard Law Review in the 1990s (although he wrote no articles for publication), his undistinguished tenure as a state senator in IL, and an anti-war speech in 1992 that wasn’t even audio- or video-taped and didn’t rate even a mention in the local papers. Oh, and he wrote two autobiographical books by his mid-40s. He claims to have been a “civil rights attorney” (although he has argued no cases in court) and a consitutional law professor” (although he was really a part-time adjunct instructor who never published a single peer reviewed article).
2. is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
From a press release from Hillary Clinton’s campaign, 12/2/07:
“Iis Darmawan, 63, Senator Obama’s kindergarten teacher, remembers him as an exceptionally tall and curly haired child who quickly picked up the local language and had sharp math skills. He wrote an essay titled, ‘I Want To Become President,’ the teacher said.” [AP, 1/25/07 ]
His third grade teacher: Fermina Katarina Sinaga “asked her class to write an essay titled ‘My dream: What I want to be in the future.’ Senator Obama wrote ‘I want to be a President,’ she said.” [The Los Angeles Times, 3/15/07]
In addition, Obama told his brother
‘I think I’d like to teach at some point in time, and maybe run for public office,’ recalls Robinson, who assumed Senator Obama meant he’d like to run for city alderman. “He said no — at some point he’d like to run for the U.S. Senate. And then he said, ‘Possibly even run for President at some point.’ And I was like, ‘Okay, but don’t say that to my Aunt Gracie.’ I was protecting him from saying something that might embarrass him.”
His Harvard law classmates also report that Obama frequently talked about becoming President.
3. believes that he or she is “special” and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)
For this one the shink need look no further than Obama’s denigration of working class people as “bitter,” gun-toting religious nuts who are too stupid to see his wonderfulness. And of course he made these remarks in front of group of wealthy elitist snobs in San Franciso’s most hoity-toity neighborhood.
4. requires excessive admiration
Obama’s appearances before huge audiences, his desire to speak in front of the Brandenburg Gate in Germany like Ronald Reagan did as President, his encouragement of a rabid, cult-like following all demonstrate this need in Obama.
5. has a sense of entitlement, i.e., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations
This one is easy. Obama acted like he had won the nomination after his win in the Iowa caucuses; after he lost in the New Hampshire primary, he still encouraged his followers to call on Hillary Clinton to drop out of the race. After Super Tuesday, he assumed that the nomination was his and urged his followers and the compliant media to demand that that Clinton must quit because she was hurting his chances in November. Meanwhile, Hillary won Ohio, Rhode Island, Texas, Pennsylvania, West Virginia, Kentucky, Puerto Rico, and South Dakota, while Obama was on a downhill slide. Now that Obama is the “presumptive nominee,” he is acting as if he is already President and expecting to be treated as such by foreign leaders and the media.
6. is interpersonally exploitative, i.e., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends
See above references to numerous people who were supportive of Obama for many years and then were thrown under the bus without a second thought.
7. lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others
Evidence for this one: Obama’s treatment of the voters of Florida and Michigan as well as his dismissal of working class voters in Pennsylvana, Ohio, West Virginia, and Kentucky.
8. is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him
This one is harder to support with clear evidence, but in my opinion, Obama is very envious of the Clintons, because they are able to outshine him. One example of this was Obama’s angry resentment after Hillary crushed him in the Pennsylvania debate. He just couldn’t resist denigrating her, brushing her off his shoulders and shoes, and giving her the finger. Because he envies the Clintons, Obama imagines that they are equally resentful of his success. He just can’t imagine that Bill and Hillary might be unselfishly working for the good of their party and their country, despite Hillary’s “loss” in the primaries.
Obama is now treating John McCain like he treated the Clintons, denigrating him, accusing him of racism and pushing false and unfair smears against Obama. For example, in his announcement in Minneapolis that he was the nominee of the Democratic Party, he complained:
I honor [John McCain's] service, and I respect his many accomplishments, even if he chooses to deny mine.
Huh? Exactly what accomplishments are those, Barack? And when did McCain “deny” them?
(9) shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes
For this one, I would recommend that Obama’s shrink read this blog post on Obama’s body language and watch two videos recommended by the body language expert. These videos also demonstrate Obama’s narcissistic rage and resentment toward Hillary Clinton.
NOTE: The body language article and the videos were recently cited by Confluence commenter bmc. Thank you for identifying yourself in the comments. I tried searching the comments where I got the links, but just couldn’t find it.
I’m sure you brilliant Conflucians can think of plenty of other examples that demonstrate Barack Obama’s malignant narcissism. Please feel free to share them in the comments.
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Grand slam homerun! Should be read by every voter in this country. Great job.
much better than his lost thesis I’m sure!!! Seriously, really telling. Although I wonder about the people around him like Axelrod, Ayers, Wright, they seem just as narcissitic as Obama, It would seem like two or more people with this disorder would not get along…oh, and those videos are creepy, especially the one with they psycho music!!….
he reminds me of a vampire when he looks at her…gives me the willies…
You say narcissist, I say snob.
You say potato…
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Well done, Bostonboomer.
One of the most important pieces written here! Thank you, BB. As a therapist, I totally agree with everything you’ve written! Hopefully, other sites will pick this up!
WOWWOOWOWOWOWWW!!!!!!!!
Boston – this post is AWESOME! There are so many good parts, I don’t even know where to begin.
I love how you break it down and that body language article is phenomenal.
He’s a crazy sociopathic narcissist! Please, we can’t have him near the red button in case Ahmenidijad (sp?) calls him a woos!!
Gary,
Those people are narcissistic. As you recently pointed out, Obama’s campaign is even more secretive and his operatives are more arrogant than even George Bush and his campaign were. Fortunately, the media finally seems to be catching on and Obama is being mocked a lot more regularly than during the primaries. I expect that treatment to arouse Obama’s narcissistic rage and cause him to make more gaffes and act even more arrogantly toward the media.
NPD tends to occur in prominent and successful people who can get away with deviant behavior because of their wealth and social class. Obama doesn’t really belong to the upper classes. I wonder how long they will be willing to put up with his attitude.
BB:
Great great post. Brava!
Because I’m more familiar with hard science , I have seriously been looking for someone to explain to me what can cause Obama’s massive obsession with huge rallies.
From the beginning of the campaign, he never stopped to mention how many people came to watch him wherever he was appearing. He went as far as inflating to numbers.
I always thought he saw the throng of admiring supporter as ersatz for depth and heft, because he had none.
Now, I’m getting a more compelling picture of what’s cooking here.
You don’t want me to go with the historic figures displaying such a personality do you? Because it ain’t pretty.
Thanks everyone. I’ve been meaning to write about this for a long time, but lately Obama’s arrogant, entitled behavior is just crying out for an intervention. The fact that I’ve been teaching abnormal psychology this summer has also caused me to spend time thinking about Obama’s psychological problems.
As a psychiatric nurse, I have thought for several months that BO suffers from NPD. All your points were well referenced against the DSM IV, and hit every point exactly. His behavior is typical of those persons with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder. It is only, going to become worse, as the campaign progresses, and God help us all, if he wins the election.
That’s a d&mn solid case. Very, very well done!
No wonder the guy turns me off and scares me at the same time…
Fabulous BB. He hits the mark on each level.
MAblue – PLEASE MAKE A LIST.
I can start:
Napoleon
Stalin
Lenin
Hitler
George W. Bush
Pinochet
Fidel Castro
Chavez
Pharaoh Ramses II
King Herod
Mussolini
Ho Chi Minh
Idi Amin
MABlue,
I’d love to get your take on which historical figures may have had NPD. It’s likely that a number of politicians and celebrities–people who love the limelight–have this personality disorder.
According to Sam Vankin, there are two types of narcissists, “cerebral,” those who gain attention and admiration for their intelligence and academic achievements, and “somatic,” those who get their “narcissistic supply” from their body–through sexual conquests, athletic achievements, and so on. Obama seems to be the cerebral type, although he sure works out a lot when he’s campaigning. He seems almost completely asexual to me though.
Definitely Hitler. He probably had Antisocial Personality Disorder too (used to be called sociopathy).
BB – I agree with the asexual thing. He seems undeveloped, like a child.
Okay, serious question and please don’t assume I’m trying to undercut your analysis, Bostonboomer, because I’m not.
It’s just that it seems to me Obama is in way over his head, so my question is, would an “actor” basically hired to play the role of a conquering hero exhibit the same symptoms?
Could the condition be acquired in the portrayal, or exaggerated by it?
Maybe I’m not wording this correctly, but I guess what I want to know is would there be any way to tell if the narcissism drove the candidate or did the candidacy bring on the narcissism?
‘Cause like I said, he seems to me to be woefully inadequate, like a nerd trying to pretend to be a jock.
So, I’m wondering, what came first?
birdgal,
I know I’m not the only one who fears that Obama has even more potential to grab dictatorial power than George W. Bush and Dick Cheney.
Josgirl,
He is inadequate. We can see that, but he can’t. The nature of his disorder is that he thinks he is special, annointed by God. He doesn’t need qualifications or experience. Just by who he is, he will magically become a great leader. And he is outraged at anyone who doesn’t recognize his magnificent specialness. That is the essence of NPD.
BostonBoomer, thanks so much for posting this. I saw a link to the NPD description for Obama earlier this week, and was impressed that it tied together a unifying theory to explain BO. NPD guides my view of him on any news account or interview, and the more I see of BO, the more I’m convinced he’s got the personality disorder.
What dismays me is how he gets away with it, and gets away with it, …unless…
As you say, the media, and others can figure how to rouse his narcissistic rage, cause him to make outrageous gaffes, etc.
Put it this way, with a few really good screw-ups from Obama before Denver, and his continued dropping in the polls, our Hillary may be back in the game, we pray.
Q. Is it true that the Obama campaign paid for free beer and food to lure an audience at the Brandenburg Gate before his speech? Also heard there was a Wagner Festival that brought them in to the park in Berlin anyway, too. Like to hear if true.
Excellent post BB.
From #5:
Any day now, I expect to hear Obama (or Obama surrogates, or the DNC) ask President Bush to step down.
One more comment related to Obama’s NPD – it’s the old saying: Hubris breeds Nemesis.
Who or what will be the Nemesis.
Lacks empathy – Doesn’t give a shit about wounded vets
Josgirl: His narcissism drove his candidacy. Anyone with an reasonable and true sense of self, would not have presumed to have qualified for POTUS, based upon his thin resume. Look at Hillary. She worked her entire career building a profolio of accomplishments, and when she arrived in the Senate, her committee work has helped to prepare her for the POTUS. She laid a proper foundation; BO has not.
If anyone had ever told me that I wouldn’t be over the moon about the first black candidate for President, I’d never have believed it.
Okay, I don’t like the guy, but it’s the way the nomination was handed to him that really kills it for me.
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I think you make a compelling analysis of Barack Obama, and I think he may have surrounded himself with a cadre of narcissists.
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What is soooooooo funny is all of the highly intelligent people that have played right into his condition!
He is like the “pretty girl” that has strutted through life only touching the surface of everything he is involved in. That is why he has such a difficult time speaking without a teleprompter – he has no core values that he has formulated and built his opinions on. He’s all things to all people for the attention he receives from it.
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I kinda thought the same as josgirl…that he’s just a puppet and the narcicisssm of his handlers shine through…..But then again, George Bush is very much like him…maybe he just thinks he deserves having everyone else do all his work for him. Another thing he and GWB have in common is the fitness thing..GWB is always running, biking, has a heart rate of like 45 or something….BB is that a sign of NPD?
Yes it’s true – theyt had 2 bands play before he went on.
Wow, I never thought about the personal fitness thing. You’re right, Bush and Obama are both into working out. Both of them wiry and lean and seem addicted to exercise. Of course with Obama it’s basketball, which is no surprise considering his race. That’s creepy. They are more alike than I had thought.
birdgal, bostonboomer, I understand totally what you say.
So how does someone so obviously inadequate pull together the resources he has?
That’s what I don’t understand.
Somebody had to think foisting his delusions of grandeur upon the unsuspecting masses was a peachy idea.
Why?
Did they come to him, or did he go to them?
SM:
Oy! The list is even scarier on paper.
You add Mao, Tito and pretty much every other tin foil dictator you can think of.
François Duvalier
Saparmurat Niyazov
Kim Il-sung
gary – yes. My ex-brother-in-law is. He works out so much he looks like a skeleton – can’t hold the weight on.
I’m not sure GWB fights the bill. I think he is acting from being in the shadow of his father his whole life. He is extremely insecure. He finally beat his dad by being elected 2 times and then fucked everything up.
True, but he didn’t grow up in the projects or a shotgun house in hte Old South either.
I’d say he came from an upper middle class family. He went to private schools all his life and was always surrounded by priviledged elite types.
I KNOW! Why, why, why did they pick HIM? Ironically, Jeremiah Wright was correct: As a minority, just like Hillary, Obama would have to be twice as good as a white man in order to succeed.
He’s not even half as good as most of the other candidates who ran for President this year; yet he doesn’t even realize it.
Definite narcissism.
I wish I knew more about Michelle and her family history. She is a very successful woman, but she would have to have low self-esteem to be married to a man like Barack who is completely self-involved and really has no concept of what it is like to really care about anyone but himself. I have long thought that Obama married Michelle because of her connections to the Chicago political machine. She was able to introduce him to people that he never would have had access to without her.
Oh SM – I forgot to say, I LOVED your graphic on the last post! Tuned in too late to get onto that thread.
EXCELLENT JOB!!
sm77:
I know there was a free concert beforehand. It was 2 of the most popular bands in Germany. I think they were payed by the Obama campaign.
Great post! One of the reasons I can’t vote for him is because he is arrogant.
bostonboomer, re: Michelle, I think it’s the other way around.
She’s the puppetmaster from everything I read.
It is amazing to me the wealth of knowledge on this blog. There are chemists, social scientists, writers, lawyers, artists, singers, engineers, power salespeople(thinking of Carol for one). The list of accomplishments goes on and on.
Only low information voters would call us low information voters.
karen, I don’t see what his race has to do with playing basketball.
“I have long thought that Obama married Michelle because of her connections to the Chicago political machine.” Lol, me too.
He is a total narcassist. The man makes Bush look humble.
Nice work bostonboomer.
What is weird about Michelle is that she was Barack’s boss. What kind of a woman accepts a date from her junior, and then marries him? I mean, women have been dating their male bosses for years, and that’s kind of accepted, but a woman dating her male underling is not. What kind of self-esteem issues does she have, to date someone with a lower job than she had?
garychapelhill, on July 26th, 2008 at 11:18 pm Said:
karen, I don’t see what his race has to do with playing basketball.
Mhmm, agreed.
I actually think that MO is really the “boss” in that relationship. This is his first time to really shine without her hand up his back as the puppet master. I think the power is with her.
Heh. Looks like RealClearPolitics has noticed Obama’s narcissism.
Obama’s narcissism
madamab, I think they picked him because he was compliant and wouldn’t stand for anything. He’s the perfect puppet.
Boston: You hit it right ont he mark. Michelle’s dad ws a Democratic Union leader. She had all the connections of Chicago right in her home.
MadamaB: Thanks! I hope I get better at this Satire on a Budget moment!
MABlue: Exactly – they are paying everybody off. And all for a photo-op;.
madamab…that’s so weird!!! and it was Bostonboomer who was writing about synchronicity not too long ago…
Carol,
I totally agree about Michelle being the strong one in that relationship. I’m all for equal rights in a marriage, but I guess I would prefer a little more traditional kind of balance of power in the First Family. I don’t think the country is ready for a really strong woman in the White House. Look at how they treated Hillary. Nothing has really gotten any better since then, for women.
narcissists are the easiest to manipulate. Just stroke their ego a little and convince them that what you want them to do will make everyone love them. Not a good quality to have as president.
You forgot software engineers! (looking at you!)
Gary – Wild, huh?
BB and SM77 – You know, Michelle was the one that introduced Barack to Reverend Wright, IIRC.
A couple of points:
People with NPD (or any personality disorder) are not stupid. They can be incredibly smart and capable.
They naturally surround themselves with people who will further their disorderly ambitions. Some of those people think they will use the person with NPD, but narcissists use, they don’t get used.
I’d prefer a woman President in the White House. That’s what I call balance.
(clapping)
BostonBoomer — this is a post I’ve been dying to read. You’ve pulled together so many disturbing elements of his behavior and found a logical (although painful) explanation.
I know it’s come up as a theory in comments in the last few weeks. But, lining up the behaviors with specific criteria makes it more scarily real. Possible.
BB, you are a great writer and I always love your posts. This is one of your best!
josgirl,
To some extent Michelle may be pulling Barack’s strings, but you’ll notice they have really put her in the background now. As long as she is providing the all-consuming attention and admiration and Barack craves, he will keep her around. But if she stops being the source of his neverending need for more narcissistic supply, she’ll be gone.
Barack tends to be very passive-agressive. I’m sure he has plenty of ways to get Michelle’s goat. And now that he is in such a powerful public position, he can really punish her if she puts him down. This is totally speculation, but I would guess that Michelle suffers from bouts of depression. I base that on the constant negativity she demonstrates in her public appearances. She just can’t restrain her need to complain out her lot, even though she has to know it’s a turnoff for voters.
KarenKaren, I don’t mind a strong woman in the White House AT ALL – as long as her priorties are FOR THE PEOPLE, BY THE PEOPLE, TO THE PEOPLE – like Hillary was.
Josgirl: Many people with NPD have charisma, which is what attracts people to them. BO has charisma, which has opened many doors for him, and his gift of oratory has benefitted him. He has the ability to bamboozle and hookwink people with his charm and pretty speeches. There is nothing substantive about him.
BB: I think MO is also narcissistic. How they can survive in a relationship together is beyond me.
Here is a good article about her background. Of course, it is not from the U.S. media.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-517824/Mrs-O-The-truth-Michelle-Obamas-working-class-credentials.html
I dunno.
I just think he seems like Peter Sellers or Danny Kaye playing Napoleon off-off Broadway until some screwy prducer gets the bright idea to sell the show as a Hollywood blockbuster.
Springtime for Hitler, anyone?
(I don’t think of him as Dick Shawn. Dick Shawn was cool.)
BB:
Did you read Obama’s first book? It’s actually quite revealing.
I was really left with the picture of somebody
in search of an identity
insecure about his spot in the society
very inward looking
solipsistic
extremely self-involved and self-absorbed
Your excellent post kind of rounds up the whole picture. Love it.
KarenKaren – I don’t mind a strong woman, but Michelle has a giant chip on her shoulder. She really seems to believe the BLT cr&p about the United States of Amerikkka.
My husband sees her as a huge liability for Barack.
I prefer “the woman” in the White House – Hillary!
myiq, are you thinking about a sociopath? I think narcissists get used all the time. Don’t they need flattery?
Carol, you and I are on the same page.
MAB:
You do realize that book was about 1/2 fiction?
Just returned from a combo pool party/picnic attended by about 20 people. A diverse mix of Repubs,(who cannot stand McCain) a handful of Dems (who loathe Obama) and an Independent who cannot stand either one. The interesting part of the day/eve, as we all did some serious imbibing, is that no on is voting for Obama! They hate him! And they are all just beginning to hear about PUMA. Great news!
remember that gay serial killer…the one who killed versace…wasn’t he NPD—isn’t that a common trait of serial killers? ted bundy, etc…
Wow, Katiebird. Thank you. I really appreciate that, because I think you are an original thinker and writer. I know this post isn’t really original, but I when I started to look at the criteria for NPD, I realized that Obama met every single one–not just the required five. I wanted to put it all down on paper and see what it looked like. I could have given so many other examples….
Let’s face it – we can not allow these 2 misfits into the White House.
I think Samantha Power ghost wrote at least one of those books. She took sabatical for a year and spent it with him when he was writing.
Andrew Cunanan.
BTW, has KarenKaren been around for a while or is she new? She -pardon me if I’m wrong-doesn’t sound like a Democrat.
Josgirl and Mawm-right on! In my experience, a NPD seeks out others who will enhance his own view of himself, associating himself with those who would “validate” him. The creepy part is that there are others out there who may have recognized this and decided to use him also. Therefore, the Perfect Storm we see!
Good Evening Patty!
Nikita Khruschev
Mohmmar Qaddafi
Pablo Escobar
Charles Manson
David Koresh
Franco from Spain
Rafael Leonidas Trujillo
THE LIST CAN GO ON…they are all DESPOTS.
SweetieSue! – I haven’t seen her here before. I’m not sure what her game is but I’m definitely suspicious…
Thise glares are freaky. That’s going to give me bad dreams.
But I always kind of liked Nikita Khruschev. He debunked the whole Stalin deification and, quite possibly, kept us out of WW111.
Warren Buffet
Bloomberg
They fit the description.
Buffet has given his money away to strangers, but is a tight wad with his family.
Bloomberg is only interested in his snobbery and power.
Michelle has kind of disappeared lately. They must be afraid to let people see the real “her.” I don’t think they can make her into a smiling Lady with a capital L, like Laura Bush, who never makes waves. They have probably tried. Michelle is just too strong a personality to be made to “behave” like that. I think her opinion will influence him a great deal if he becomes president.
Yeah, my radar went way up with KarenKaren. Obamabot, I think.
Pat:
I truly had to laugh out loud although everyone is gone to bed here.
Where did you get him from?
I was telling somebody today how much I remember my first visit to Miami end of 97, there was still Versace’s blood on the stairs of his mansion.
I still can’t believe you came up with Andrew Cunanan.
Oh really, Karen? Well, you need to check out my unHillary piece. Apparently, MO plans to model herself after LB.
Yeah, anyone who prefers the “traditional “woman sets off my alarm.
Serial killers are soicipaths, though, not just narcassist.
WOW, and soooo true. I really think that she has him by the balls because in reality – she MADE Barack Obama who he is. Without her connections to Chicago Politics, her connection to Rev. Wright, Bill Ayers & all the Chicago Corrput Machine, Barack Obama would still be that adjunct professor.
Gary,
Many serial killers would fit the profile of NPD. Of course they would also fit Antisocial Personality Disorder criteria. It isn’t unusual for people to have more than one disorder. Ted Bundy was interesting, because he was seemingly quite functional and successful until he was rejected by a highly intelligent and accomplished woman. He didn’t start to decompensate until that happened. When the woman refused all his efforts to win her back, he began murdering women who resembled her.
Bundy was also the child of a single mother, abandoned by his father whom he never knew. Not that I’m saying Obama is like Bundy. Obama aspires to be in a position so powerful that he will be able to do whatever he wants without worrying about legal repercussions. I think he is looking forward to the unitary executive power that Bush and Cheney have created.
Good grief, you folks are harsh. I don’t prefer a “traditional” woman at all, I don’t consider myself one. I was responding to an earlier post about how Michelle wears the pants in that family and agreeing that it’s a bit too much. I mean, you want the president to be running the country, and not the spouse, right?
I think Michelle and Barack are in a condition a friend of mine called “neurotic lock.” Their mental problems complement each other perfectly.
One step out of balance for Michelle and she’ll be sniffing Greyhound exhaust fumes along with the rest of us.
MABlue: My mind still works. Madonna is another one of those NPD people. It does not always have to be a politician. Most celebs fall into the same category. Me, Me, Me.
BB –
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Bingo. Hence the FISA vote.
“wears the pants in the family?’ Oh my goodness, KarenKaren, I haven’t heard that expression in forty years.
Little Green Footballs is missing a KarenKaren.
Just catching up on some earlier posts. Congrats to SM, bb, and of course, our very own playwright, madamab. The new Lillian Hellman of the Confluence!
Michele may be a strong woman but she is also an angry woman. Dangerous.
Hi Pat!!! How did that Jello pie go over a the picnic? I’m definitely going to make that when my PUMA cub comes back from her vacay with her dad.
I draw the line at MO joining us under the bus!
I have said before, we need to get out from under the bus and someone needs to drag his ass under! We will supply the mirror on the under side.
SM: There was hardly any food left! We had a great time and terriffic political discussions. The recipe is so easy and simple Little Puma Cub can do it herself! Use any flavor of Jello. It is really good in hot weather.
Jello pie? What’s the recipe?
Bad enough I have to ride under the bus with certain people, I have no desire to make room for Michele. Ed agrees 100%!
I wonder if there are any PUMA groups in my area.
Pat, how would you know what Eddy agrees on? Unless, of course, you found another Ed today at the party?
masslib: Take a box of Jello, any flavor. Mix it dry with a container of Kool Whip. Scoop into a ready made piecrust. Place in freezer for about 2 hours. It comes out like Carvel ice cream cake and everyone things you are a genius. All I did was place strawberry slices around the edge of the piecrust to pretty it up and voila! A moron or a 5 yr old can do it.
Oooh. That sounds great!
Carol: We have our ways. Being “held hostage” affords one the opportunity to become creative.
masslib…I always think that if there is one, there are more…which always makes me kind of sad in a way…real uniqueness is rare..(and I mean t his in a general way…I just read it back and it seems I’m saying you are not unique, which I’m not…okk I’ll stop blaabbering now….)
masslib – Sign up with Pumapac and ask to be contacted about gatherings in your area. You’ll get lots of emails!
Madamab (and Gary & Mawm), did I tell you how much I enjoyed your production? Sometimes my speakers don’t work from FireFox so I missed the actual performance and couldn’t get it to play all week. And then I had a genius idea: Try it in Internet Explorer!!
(shaking my head) I’m so embarrassed!
Anyway, you guys were wonderful and I enjoyed it immensely! You’re great! All of you.
bostonboomer: This was truly an amazing post. Obama’s narsisism is appalling but Michelle equally disgusts me. Her comments about taking care of her house and the White House were so irritating and Barky’s sneer at Hillary was just inexcusable. Jesus, those people are irritating.
What bb wrote is exactly what we have been saying for months now with the exception of the diagnostic label. Eight years of Bush with the same symptoms does not warrant another 4 years of Obama unless we are happy with reruns.
“Traditional woman” – He wears the pants, she tells him which pair to put on.
Pat, that sounds delicious. And I’ve been wanting to gain another 10 pounds. You’ve come up with just the thing! Thanks!
myiq2xu: lol
Speaking of Michelle:
You guys don’t think she could be among us here under the bus? Her publi appearances have been curtailed to say to say the least. Her wardrobe has been changed, her vocabulary, pretty much her entire personality.
It’s so crowded under here that I’m not sure about who’s not here.
katiebird: I fool myself into thinking that because it tastes like Carvel I am saving on calories. Naturally a tub of Kool Whip along with ready made crusts which are loaded with sugar is not fattening of course.
Speaking of narcissism, I just finished watching “The Sweet Smell of Success.” Burt Lancaster was absolutely chilling.
MABlue: Those Jimmy Choo shoes would be a dead giveaway. Nothing under here but sneakers and flip flops.
madamab: And Tony Curtis was fantastic as Sidney. A real creep as well. Tony in his prime was adorable!
Thanks KB! We had a lot of fun doing that play.
I think Michelle Obama is irrelevant. She hasn’t expressed any interest in doing anything as first lady, so her role in this campaign doesn’t seem too noteworthy….with the exception of when she said she had never been proud of this country till now…I think that was a really revealing and terrible thing to say as the spouse of someone running for president…I mean you should be patriotic to the bone, and that includes your immediate family…call me old fashioned…
Pat,
Exactly. I know my post isn’t original. We have been talking about this for a long time. I just wanted to put it all together with the DSM IV criteria for NPD.
PJ – Mmmmmm, Tony Curtis. Wowie.
I know it’s crowded under the bus, but Michelle smells of elitism and fauxrage. Even the exhaust fumes can’t cloak that stench.
Pat, Carvel? I don’t know what that is.
Also, here’s how sick I am: I automatically substituted Heavy Whipping Cream for Kool Whip!! So, what do you think? Does the 10 pounds still stand? Or should I double it?
and Birkenstocks pat!!!
Got home and found my People Mag in the mailbox. Yuck! But he does have beautiful children. Haven’t read the article yet but I suppose it is another puff piece.
garychapelhill careful they will accuse you of being a Republican!
Gary -
You nailed it.
And that is why she is a liability for Obama. I didn’t think so until she said that. I was impressed by her obvious intelligence.
Oh well.
because I wear Birkenstocks i’m a republican?
O/T BUT IMPORTANT:
Donna Darko left me this very shocking comment in the previous thread:
WTF???? CALL THE FBI !!!!
katiebird: No Carvel out in KS? They sell a frozen concoction that looks like a cake but is really ice cream. You have to eat it quickly since it melts. No heavy cream, for God’s sake! Kool Whip!
BB, Your post is totally original. It’s one thing for us to casually discuss the possibility. But to have a person-of-knowledge dig into the facts — THAT’s a post to be proud of.
Gary,
The scary thing about Michelle for me is when she talks about how Barack is going to “make” us do things.
SM: Are you serious? Donna Darko has been targeted?
katiebird – I’m with you on the Heavy Whipping Cream!
Thank god we are under the bus instead of in the bus, we could be responsible for a lot of crushings!
(sniff) None? Have you ever put it in coffee? There’s no going back….
bb: Right, that comment made me uneasy. Do what??
Donna Darko – If you have been threatened, you should let the authorities know IMMEDIATELY. SM is right.
They can track the email addresses and IP addresses of the people that threatened you. And they should! Give these disgusting thugs a taste of their own medicine!
joaniebone must be the one with the brains in the family.
Donna Darko should contact SusanUnPC. She’s been dealing with threats for months and might/should have a contact name for her.
Pat – that’s what she left in the previous thread – I hope she answers back either here or there.
(nodding) She does, Pat — it’s pathetically obvious, isn’t it?
KB – Heavy cream in coffee! Oh MMMMMM.
I’m telling you, it’s a good thing I’m lactose-intolerant, or I’d BE the bus by now.
Can someone explain to me why anyone would resort to threats like this? Why is it so important that we all worship the same “god” to these people?
Not to ruin anyone’s appetite, but I once took a marketing course in which the instructor described the whole process of developing Cool Whip. What forms it went through, how the failures looked, the different ingredients they tried and what they finally put in it (some of the same ingredients are in car wax). I have never been able to touch it since.
There really is no going back from real cream, and it takes 30 seconds to whip in the Cuisinart.
I thought you guys meant you put Kool whip in your coffee….although that does sound kind of good…
I’m sick of this shit. It’s like Guatemala in the late 70’s.
katiebird: But you have the looks and other “qualities” she let us in on recently.
just don’t ever put kool aid in your coffee
I don’t think either Obama is particularly more intelligent than your average professional. I never have. In fact, when people say Obama is “brilliant”, I think ok, give me an example. I knew MO wasn’t “brilliant” when she said running the federal government wasn’t brain surgery. I thought no, you nitwit, it’s a hella lot harded than brain surgery.
As a young man, Burt Lancaster was absolutely gorgeous. He and Robert Mitchum were the two handsomest men of that era, IMO. Mitchum played some really scary sociopaths–notably, the evil preacher in “Night of the Hunter” and the ex-con in “Cape Fear.” And then there was Lancaster as Elmer Gantry, who totally reminds me of Obama.
That’s true, Pat. And it’s almost a worthy trade.
Gary, I’m not quite that depraved — no kool aid for me!
I need everyone’s advice.
My son left to go back to LA after the holidays on January 1. I usually leave the Christmas trees up until the 1st couple of weeks of January. The first primary was January 3.
I just noticed that my Christmas trees are still up. I’ve been busy – ok!
Here’s my question. Should I take them down now or just leave them for this year? I know that if Hillary is not the nominee, I will probably be too depressed to put them up in December.
Any thoughts?
KarenKaren: Thanks, but anything that requires more than 3 steps in cooking for me is arduous. Just turning on the Cuisart would be that one extra step in preparation. I used recipes out of “I Hate to Cook” cookbook for years. That writer spoke to me.
http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/politics/chi-070325obama-youth-story,0,5069625.story?page=3
Excerpt:
Former playmates remember Obama as “Barry Soetoro,” or simply “Barry,” a chubby little boy very different from the gangly Obama people know today. All say he was teased more than any other kid in the neighborhood–primarily because he was bigger and had black features.
He was the only foreign child in the neighborhood. He also was one of the only neighborhood children whose parents enrolled him in a new Catholic school in an area populated almost entirely by Betawis, the old tribal landowning Jakarta natives who were very traditional Muslims. Some of the Betawi children threw rocks at the open Catholic classrooms, remembered Cecilia Sugini Hananto, who taught Obama in 2nd grade.
Teachers, former playmates and friends recall a boy who never fully grasped their language and who was very quiet as a result. But one word Obama learned quickly in his new home was curang, which means “cheater.”
When kids teased him, Obama yelled back, “Curang, curang!” When a friend gave him shrimp paste instead of chocolate, he yelled, “Curang, curang!”
Zulfan Adi was one of the neighborhood kids who teased Obama most mercilessly. He remembers one day when young Obama, a hopelessly upbeat boy who seemed oblivious to the fact that the older kids didn’t want him tagging along, followed a group of Adi’s friends to a nearby swamp.
“They held his hands and feet and said, `One, two, three,’ and threw him in the swamp,” recalled Adi, who still lives in the same house where he grew up. “Luckily he could swim. They only did it to Barry.”
The other kids would scrap with him sometimes, but because Obama was bigger and better-fed than many of them, he was hard to defeat.
“He was built like a bull. So we’d get three kids together to fight him,” recalled Yunaldi Askiar, 45, a former neighborhood friend. “But it was only playing.”
Obama has claimed on numerous occasions to have become fluent in Indonesian in six months. Yet those who knew him disputed that during recent interviews.
Israella Pareira Darmawan, Obama’s 1st-grade teacher, said she attempted to help him learn the Indonesian language by going over pronunciation and vowel sounds. He struggled greatly with the foreign language, she said, and with his studies as a result.
The teacher, who still lives in Obama’s old neighborhood, remembers that he always sat in the back corner of her classroom. “His friends called him `Negro,’
” Darmawan said. The term wasn’t considered a slur at the time in Indonesia.
Still, all of his teachers at the Catholic school recognized leadership qualities in him. “He would be very helpful with friends. He’d pick them up if they fell down,” Darmawan recalled. “He would protect the smaller ones.”
Third-grade teacher Fermina Katarina Sinaga, now 67, has perhaps the most telling story. In an essay about what he wanted to be when he grew up, Obama “wrote he wanted to be president,” Sinaga recalled. “He didn’t say what country he wanted to be president of. But he wanted to make everybody happy.”
Carol, those trees need to come down.
Carol: Do what I do. Throw a sheet over it and march it right out to the garage. No mess, no worry. And the beauty of this is you can just march it right back in come December without looking all over the place for the ornaments since they are still in place! My housekeeping skills match my culinary ones.
It’s not brain surgery if your plan is to sell it off and privatize it. SEE HOW EVERYTHING WORKS OUT FOR THE Os?
BTW, if there ever is a TV movie made, PLEASE LET THEM CAST Omarosa as Michelle.
christmas trees??? carol do you live at Southfork? and um YES you should take them down. what do you think this is, a trailer park???
{{Carol}} Oh, Honey. I think you’d better take them down right now. Seriously.
If Hillary is not the nominee, we’ll all be facing it together in 6 months.
But, you don’t want those trees haunting you in the mean time.
I am a therapist too. I have been waiting for someone to say it and now BB has said it in living breathing color. I agree completely and would add that a narcissist has an extremely fragile ego and cannot tolerate negative criticism. O’s fragility is apparent. That alone will cause him to fail as president.
Katiebird has both brains and beauty. I’m sure Joaniebone is equally intelligent and beautiful, even if she does use raunching language after a couple of drinks.
But, I will just have to put them up again if I go downstairs in December.
“It’s Christmas all year round with Obama as our president!”
I am Barack Obama and I approve this ad.
What Pat says. That’s what we do. Well, we put it (just one) in the “downstairs”
sm77 – BRILLIANT!
“BTW, if there ever is a TV movie made, PLEASE LET THEM CAST Omarosa as Michelle.”
Perfect!
Carol, you’re freaking me out..I’m picturing you living on the top floor of a dusty old mansion where all the furniture is covered with sheets…a la Grey Gardens LOL
Pat,
Peg Bracken! I used to adore the I Hate to Cook Book. I still make “Stay-a-bed Stew” and that Chicken with Artichoke Casserole. Yum.
Okay, what do the therapists say?
and janice dickenson could play nancy pelosi…
PJ – LOL!
I can be of no help. I am a Joooo and don’t know from the goyishe Christmas trees. Oy!
Carol: I say leave it up. The year is halfway over and we are closer to December than say a few months ago. If it is not live, throw a blanket over it and pretend it’s a new “friend” staying over for a few days.
The only other advice I would offer is never to have visitors.
I have been upstairs in my office on the computer for 6 and 1/2 months. Sorry, nothing has sheets on it. The dust is everywhere. I need election fraud, ruined my happy life therapy – intervention.
Now THAT’s what I call American ingenuity!
MadamaB: Omarosa WAS BORN to play the part of Michelle Obama. Highly educated, upper middle class families, extremely derogatory to people in lower incomes, and they are the Queens of the Universe, so bow down bitches.
Adam Sandler as Barack Obama.
Ben Stiller?
Carol (or Miss Haversham): Nothing wrong with being an eccentric. Never mind what the therapist says. Just look at the Christmas Tree Shops as an example. They make a fortune with that title. Just don’t turn on the lights every day. Someone might get the wrong impression.
They are pretty and a lot of work – no need to hide, only needs dusting.
I blame BO.
Carol,
We will be your support group next Christmas. If Hillary isn’t President, we are all going to need to stick together and prop each other up so we can help her in 2012.
Miss Haversham! LOL.
Starring Flip Wilson as Backtrack Obama. “The devil made me do it”.
Pat Johnson, on July 27th, 2008 at 12:24 am Said:
Starring Flip Wilson as Backtrack Obama. “The devil made me do it”.
Pat, he’s dead.
He can vote, though.
Who would play Axelrod? Mike Myers?
We need someone tall and skinny to play Obama.
Too bad Jimmy Stewart has gone to his reward.
Is Gary still here? I think it’s time for the late night post.
I don’t think MO is that intelligent. Her entire education and work history has been affirmative action.
Her personality alone should have kept her out of any professional position.
Jimmy Stewart always comes off as a sympathetic character though.
Jim Carrey could do the job.
Masslib: “knew MO wasn’t “brilliant” when she said running the federal government wasn’t brain surgery.”
THIS is the only possible explanation for any support of Obama. People must think running the ENTIRE Federal Government is a breeze.
And that’s just crazy.
You know what would be great, if we could get those plays of madamab’s on film. I bet the DNC couldn’t ignore those. I think lots of people would watch them.
One of the comments in the New Yorker article that stuck with me was about how Obama has grandiose ideas that never really play out but he takes credit for them as if they did. His housing initiative in Chicago was one of the examples. Evidently a lot of that housing is a slum.
Mountain Sage
I’m pretty sure Obama is playing Obama.
Mike Myers isn’t sinister. Has to be somebody sinister. I’m thinking that guy from Spain who won the Academy Award this year, Bardem or something.
Just post them on YouTube and give them lots of hits so they float to the top.
Yes, Pat but he does a good doc evil.
Those plays are brilliant! I always said she could publish in the New Yorker.
“No Country for Old Men”
Axelrod can be played by Richard Gere. He was really chilling as a political consultant in the movie “Power.” He would have to be uglied up to play Axelrod though. Obama would probably like to be played by Denzel Washington, but he might be a little old for the part. What about Will Smith? He would have to lose a lot of his muscles though. Who could play Michelle?
Yes, that is the one. Evil.
gary said Omarosa. Or anyone of those brides on Bridezilla. Awful people.
No way – I love Will Smith and would have to boycott him from now on for the taint!
I would love to get the plays on YouTube! I reached out to someone who is interested, but that person is working on other things at the moment.
All right, everyone, good night and pleasant dreams of Cool Whip and heavy cream!
Again, excellent post, BB!
Pat, Javier Bardem is mine (sorry mawm) I don’t care what he did in that old men movie, I’ve been watching him in spanish movies for years and he is HOT
No, bb. Obama has already said he wants WS to play him in the movie version(yes, he actually said that!). I wouldn’t reward him with Smith. How about Ben Affleck. He’s full of himself.
Check it out! According to Huffpo, Tom Cruise has bought the rights to a movie about Obama, and Will Smith is angling for the part.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/06/26/will-smith-wants-to-play_n_109463.html
I think he should be played by that guy who played Urkel..Jaleel something?
My TV cast for the Lifetime Movie of the Os (alive or dead):
Barack: WIll Smith
Michelle: Omarosa
David Axelfraud: A balding combover-ed Ron Jeremy
Rev. Wright: Richard Pryor
Barack’s mom: Karen Black
Barack’s dad: Djimon Honsou
Barack’s grandma: Kathy Bates
Hillary Clinton: Meryl Streep or Cate Blanchett
Bill Ayers: Harvey Keitel
Any other suggestions?
gary: I so agree with you! He is a hottie!
Ben Affleck would be good, but don’t we need a black guy to play Obama?
Great Job “BB”!
I’m glad the “State of the union SNUB” & the “finger-thing” are back; he got away with that “RUDE-BEHAVIOR” way too easily.
I want to see tape fron when Pres. Bush passed Obama, I think he gave him the “BIG-SNUB” as well!
One of my questions was answered by your tape; he did talk to Claire Mc. Still she had a “Clear View” of Hillary so “if” want the *2* HS “kids” said is TRUE, that
he “turned to talk to her”. Then she should be under the bus for allowing him to “Make Such an Error in Judgement”!!
Just-a-Thought
P.S. A fellow co-Puma & I went to a local NY book signing & gave, Sean Hannity a PUMA Shirt & wrist-band. He seemed excited. His body-guards, quickly put it in a bag; but his eyes kept looking at the bag & said T/Y!
He had his kids with him. They’re so cute!
How about after he loses we just allow them to shrink into obscurity?
I wish we could get spell check. I have forgotten how to spell basic words. Old age setting in.
SM: I disagree with Will Smith. But I am having my doubts about you since you seem to know Ron Jeremy!!!!!!!!!!
hey bboomer..Ok, I’ll post now…Everyone come on into the lounge…we’re dedicating songs tonight…my first one is to Lanny Davis. ( i meant to post this a minute ago..
Sean Hannity will ride this horse to the end of the trail. Once he has a bone in his jaw he never lets go.
SM,
That’s brilliant, except I think Richard Pryor is dead or near dead. How about Chris Rock as Rev. Wright? Harvey Keitel would be good as Rev. Pfleger. How about Robert DeNiro as Bill Ayers?
I still vote for Adam Sandler or Ben Stiller as BHO.
I’d settle for Jesse from Law and Order.
Oh God I heard Sean was providing coffee and donuts to anyone showing up today. He will wear that shirt on Monday night and talk about PUMA.
Good Job!
OK, I’m losing it…I thought I just posted a comment saying I opened the lounge for late night cocktaills….tonight is dedication night, and I’ve made the first dedication of the night to Lanny Davis…
Blondie could play Bernadette Dohrn. I don’t know Blondie’s real name.
Thank you so much for this piece. It belongs on NoQuarter, the PUMA blog, and other PUMA sites. I’ve thought about Obama’s narcissism for MONTHS but did not take the time to put it together as you have with the psychological analysis. I also agree that Obama is very much looking forward to the “unitary executive power” if he becomes president. It’s probably the main reason why I will not vote for him along with his inexperience and lack of accomplishments. I think from an early age Obama has been focused on only becoming famous or becoming a U.S. senator or the president that he was too much in a rush to get to that point without actually achieving any real accomplishments.
I don’t know much about Michelle or how their relationship works. I’ve always thought that they fed off of each other b/c both crave success and power. In a way Michelle is also arrogant and elitist. She is not content with what she has which is why she constantly complained about her life until she realized that this would be a liability for her husband’s campaign. She’s high maintenance and I can tell that she is dying to be first lady. She seems to enjoy her new social status and the admiration she is getting from the African American community. Her attitude is a total turnoff but considering that Obama feels that he deserves only the very best, her personality might compliment his very well.
Pat: I saw Ron Jeremy on the Surreal Life – Iand I thought he was quite normal – except for the nude resort stuff.
The tip-off? Only a narcissistic clown could think he merits an autobiography in his thirties.
Boston – my list was Alive or Dead – Richard died a couple of years ago. I don’t see Chris Rock as Rev. Wright though- he’s too young. I like the switching to DeNiro as Ayers and Keitel as Pflegler.
Ellen D.,
I’ve thought the same thing but nobody else mentioned it. Obama was not famous when he wrote that book. Why?
I think only a total narcissist would ever write an autobiography, at any age.
Ellen D,
Barack was commissioned to write a book about race relations. Instead he wrote about himself. That’s a narcissist for you.
Commissioned by whom?
Speaking of lack of empathy….when speaking of the high price of gas and food didn’t Obama offer the “solution” of eating less and driving less?
Mountain Sage
Did he Mountain Sage? Is it on tape?
i think it was the U. of chicago press katie..but I’d have to check..
When Morgan Freeman comes over to greet Obama, the senator begins bowing down both hands in worship. “This guy was president before I was,” says Obama, referring to Freeman’s turn in Deep Impact and, clearly, getting a little ahead of his own bio. Next, a nod to Bruce Almighty: “This guy was God before I was.”
http://www.mensvogue.com/business/politics/feature/articles/2007/04/status_report_obama?currentPage=1
When I was working as a psychiatric nurse ( with National Certification in Psychiatric and Mental health Nursing ) I worked with abused children and especially adolescents for many years. You have absolutely identified the behaviors that Obama has displayed, as narcissistic . He also has the behavior pattern of an abuser .A narcissist cannot help but be abusive because they are largely incapable of the healthy attachments, consideration, and empathy that others possess. He would not be the typical physical abuser , but rather the intellectual psychological verbal abuser . Covert verbal abuse, is hidden aggression, Its aim is to control without the “partner” or in this case followers knowing.
Verbal abuse is manipulative and controlling. Even disparaging comments may be voiced in an extremely sincere and concerned way. But the goal is to control and manipulate. Verbal abuse expresses a double message. Obamas messages are so ambivalent because they are not from a core of sincereity but aimed at achieving an effect .
There is incongruence between the way the speaker and his real feelings, and especially his actions . For example, he may sound very sincere and honest while attempting to control an outcome , which is the real objective .
Verbal abuse usually escalates, increasing in intensity, frequency, and variety. Verbal abuse is often put-downs disguised as jokes . There are degrees of narcissistic abuse ; neglect , verbal ,and emotional abuse, rather than physically agressive or sadistic abuse are observable in Obama .Regarding his wife , I thought it very telling in a speech he once gave , that he clearly made the distinction that SHE had the blood of slaves running in her veins , and by implication , HE of course he not . But I do believe he could become more agressive and more intensely verbally agressive and scream and intimidate to gain his desired outcome. I think he is capable of that degree of abuse.
I think Obama was able to engage his deeper pathology against Hillary becasue he has issues with women . He will be more ineffective against John Mccain because he is a man and a father figure .
Abusers emotional growth development is usally no futher along than that of an adolescent , and never really achieves maturity . They frequently display the narcissistic qualties of adolescence, that most people move beyond. To see another view of Obama watch him with the sound off , if you are ready for another OMG moment .He definitely has some narcissistic personality The lack of empathy is the telling feature and distinguishing characteristic of a narcissist .
If the next president doesn’t address the economy we will be eating less and driving less – but not by choice.
I haven’t heard any real solutions for the economy. I think we are in for a rough ride. The Bush administration messed up the economy so badly I don’t think the next administration can avoid hard times for the middle and lower classes.
Blondie is a group; Debbie Harry is the front woman.
Can we please add Oprah to the NPD list?
She and BO are cut froom the same cloth. I hope her ratings are still down.
Great piece BB,thanks
“Carol”
Do you live local to where Hannity’s signing was??
If so & your still on then; are you going to the BBQ nex weekend??
If not let me thru here & I’ll get you an invitation.
I was so… nervous! I even gave him reading material & a flyer about the Pre-Convention Conference with a note, ” would’nt it be great to do a show from here”??
Also Dr Long’s Title Bout piece & the Letter from the soldier both from her web-site.
Swannie – WOW you are so right!
tpt/ny – I’m in Texas. I just heard him talking about it on the radio yesterday. Good Job.
regency – you are back. I hope you liked it and had a good time. Did you talk to Magic and set him straight on Hillary?
Oh god, can we think of other examples. I don’t think you have enough space on here!
Just off hand, you’ve all seen those pics where he cranks his head as high as it can go while looking down on someone, mostly Hillary. The dude is already the tallest person in the room, so what the hell is THAT about? I swear I keep expecting people to start ski-jumping off the end of his nose!
And you’re right about him always presenting that cheshire cat grin while he’s being praised and loaded with lavish attention. But the SECOND someone displeases him in ANYWAY, like asking him annoying questions while he’s scarfing waffles, or about his racist pastor during a debate, you can see he’s like jeckle and hyde!
It’s SCARY!! To think someone THAT unbalanced could have their finger on the trigger of the most powerful army on earth.
I’m sure the only way he and Michelle can stay married is because she’s every bit the narcissist that HE is. I truly feel sorry for their little girls, you know they are being taught some VERY bad lessons in life.
Swannie – right on. I think us stopid, trailer trash has figured him out!
Austin Goolsbee is still BO’s chief economic adviser. But he did shove Mr. G onto the hood of the bus by claiming the only reason he lied that his staff hadn’t met with the Canadians to discuss NAFTA is that Mr. Goolsbee, who met with the Canadians, hadn’t told him.
Swannie, you’re so right. He has had violent outbursts though – even fighting with fellow lawmakers in Illinois.
A suggestion for playing MO – Regina King.
Make no mistake. Barack is surrounded by people with big egos, but the difference between someone with a big ego and someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder is exponential. There is no comparison. Big egos are annoying. Narcissistic Personality Disorder is dangerous. They are manipulative, thin-skinned, vindictive and determined. Their very self-image (life) depends on receiving validation from outside and keeping up the image as much to themselves as to anyone else. If you slight them, be prepared to run hard and run far. They will seek to destroy you. You don’t want to wait around to find that out. As an extreme example, think about Scott Peterson. Laci found out the hard way.
85Yota,
People with NPD aren’t automatically murderers like Scott Peterson. Murderers like Peterson also have Antisocial Personality Disorder, which can occur alongside NPD. Although presidents and even governors have plenty of opportunities to kill people legally–just ask GW Bush, who executed more people than any other governor in history and now has killed countless people in the Middle East.
Anyone who is paying attention knows that Obama is dangerous and that he has more than just a “big ego.” Bill and Hillary Clinton have big egos, but they still have empathy for other people. Obama doesn’t. And he is extremely “manipulative, think-skinned, vindictive, and determined,” to use your words.
Do you know what Obama and his thugs did to John Lewis and other black leaders who dared to support Hillary? They were threatened with primary challengers and received threats from Obama supporters. Lewis said that what he went through was worse than anything he faced during the Civil Rights Movement.
Take a look at this piece by an AA journalist:
Karen Karen,
Obama was offered a book contract after he was elected president of the Harvard Law Review. But the contract wasn’t for memoirs. I think he still has to write another book to fulfill the contract.
Thanks, regencyg. Deborah Harry is the one I was thinking of. And welcome back!
It’s a mental universe which he commands by virtue of the calm and the lack of compromise which is inherent in it. This lack of compromise can be perceived as inhuman.BaardOweBaard Owe, on Carl Dreyer
Finally, this piece is here! It was so very needed! Thank you.
Adding to the celebrities list:
Nicolae Ceausescu of Romania
and yeay for Bloomberg on it – spot on!
“BB”
Again thanks for a GREAT piece & saying what needed to be said.
Where did you get all that about John Lewis & the “AA”
quote?
That quote was/is “spot-on”.
Thank you Boston Boomer.
As a mental health professional, I have been saying this for months. Obama is NPD, in my view, and I’m certain there are thousands of mental health professionals out there watching this campaign play out, who are thinking the very same thing.
Moreover, it seems that more than a few journalists have concluded the same thing too.
The word is getting out there. “Narcissist” and “narcissism” and “arrogance” are beginning to appear more frequently in articles. People are beginning to sense that there is “something about” Barack Obama’s arrogance.
Some bloggers in other professions have begun to address Obama’s narcissism, too:
http://bodylanguagelady.com/2008/03/02/obamas-revealing-body-language/
Oh, sorry, about that, Boston Boomer. I believe it WAS me who first posted that link on Obama’s body language. Thanks for using it in your post. I got so excited that someone was putting this issue front and center, that I didn’t read to the end before posting the link again.
Sorry for the repeat. But, hey, it does bear repeating! ha.
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bmc
I’m a reg. nurse & I work in substance abuse.
What I find stricking is how able he is to hide his true feeling & find a way to “blend-in” wherever he goes.
His H.S. “white-classmates” thought “Barry” was one of them. Then CNN did a Bio & they found out he did’nt feel the same way (if my memory serves me right?).
Let’s not forget his mom left him alot, usually for men of color.
Just-a-Thought
I think Howard Dean has NPD too. And possibly Nancy Pelosi-it’s that distant air of non-empathy.
Anyway I read somewhere that Obama’s first book was written b4 he met Axelrod, whereas his second was written after that. It was carefully vetted to be Pres candidate material.
To tell you the truth I feel a bit sorry for BO. His body language has not been so happy for a while now. And he’s often tired. It’s his whole entourage I don’t like-nor trust-just as I didn’t like -nor trust-Cheyney and Rummy b4.
did anybody else see this at foxnews.com? Obama overheard talking to tory leader in london:
He’s going to take a week long vacation in august??? when, before the convention? must be nice, guess he thinks the election is in the bag.
and I think those “big chunks of time thinking” is a euphemism for naptime!
oh, and he has to be sure not to attribute anything positive to Clinton, heaven forbid…more evidence of ego mania…
I have been saying for a long time that Bush is a classic example of narcissitic personality disorder. His lack of empathy for those with whom he cannot closely identify is striking. He has even bragged that he did not lose sleep over the deaths of soldiers? Eisenhower agonized on the eve of D-Day knowing how many would be lost and LBJ frequently walked the floors at night over deaths in Vietnam.
I have wondered about Obama also having this disorder but I am not sure if he really has a full-blown case of NPD. He does seem to have all the attributes above, but so do a lot of very talented young guys who have never met with a big defeat. I wanted to see him lose to Hillary because then we would have known for sure if he is truly a narcissist. If he could take a loss like that and grow from it then he would have potential. Narcissists never think they are wrong so they do not grow. As it is I am still not sure, but I can believe if he wins, it will most likely cement his narcissistic tendencies into a full-blown case of NPD and he will be a disaster. If he already has this condition he will respond very badly to a loss and will blame it on others. In his case he would almost certainly blame it on racism, which would be extremely dangerous for our culture. (The fact that he has already played that card argues for his alreadly being a narcissist.)
This is a very dangerous personality type because narcissists have a talent for reading people and are thus able to be very charming. One key characteristist is that if crossed they are dangerous. Narcissists have no qualms about being vindictive and punishing or even destroying those terrible people who have dared oppose them. (O.J. is a classic case, not that all narcissists result to violence in their destructiveness.)
FYI there is another type of personality that is also often charming but are actually self-centered, the histrionic personality. The difference is that they consciously feel inferior and are therefore constantly driven to win approval. Narcissism may well be grounded in an unconscious sense of inferiority but narcissists consciously believe that they are superior beings which is why they refuse to accept blame and rarely learn from others. Histrionic people are so eager to please that they change their personalities depending on what person or group they want approval from.
Aside from politics it is important for people to become aware that these kinds of people exist and be on the lookout. I have learnedwhen I meet someone whom everyone loves to be cautious and look beneath the surface. before establishing a close relationship. For those who get taken in it can be a devastating experience because you lose faith in your own ability to judge people. An understanding the underlying dynamics helps people to recognize these people before it is too late.
I have friends who have had the misfortune to get involved with these kinds of people. Because both types are so good at reading people they can be very impressive. It is very shocking to find out that they are nothing like you thought they were. Narcissists are often very manipulative and dishonest so they are often doing all kinds of things behind your back. I had a relative who married a man like this and no one ever suspected that he was a womanizer and involved in financial shenanigans until she divorced him. I knew him well for ten years and was shocked to find out. He was one my most favorite people and I am known to be a very good judge of people.
Another woman in my family almost married a man with histrionic personality disorder. He seemed like such a great person with values very compatible to hers until he was transferred to another city and started hanging around with an old friend from childhood who had a completely opposite set of values. Within six monthes this guy had completely changed his beliefs and tried unsuccessfully to force her to do the same. Had he not moved she would never have discovered that he lacked a core of beliefs and was simply a chameleon reflect those of whomever he is looking to for validation. She really lucked out.
Thanks for the excellent article. I’m not the “shrinking” kind of psychologist (educational) so don’t have your authority to make such dx, but I did read up on personality disorders recently to deal with 2 narcissistic people on a board I served on. OOoh. I think you might have left out “grand entrances” and “staged events” as evidence. Also the twisted truth and projection to support the self-image.
My opinion of how such people get to high positions is that others misread arrogance as confidence, basically, and based on that misread everything else that the narcissist does. For instance, BO is a little vague on details of his plans–but he looks confident that they will work, so people give him a pass. He knows trigger words and speech delivery that will make him sound good, without actually committing. People listening are not applying critical reasoning or he’d have been called out a lot sooner on his inconsistencies.
It is very scary that he has all these strong-arm enforcers. I think he could have his strings pulled very easily by someone who understands his inner workings but is not taken in. As to Michelle, I see her as just another tool for him. She hasn’t shown the critical thinking that should have pushed her off. I think these narcissists are good at finding people who are unhappy in some way and presenting themselves as the solution. It’s telling that BO would be deciding for MO if someone was going to be a suitable employer for her: Control freak, looks like protective big strong guy– After this long time with him she knows him better. Now she’s well-supplied with material goods, but “misery isn’t miserly”–I think she is basically depressed, trapped, doesn’t know how to deal with his passive-aggression and responds with the public bitch-slap like “he’s stinky.” They may hold hands but they look stiff together.
If any of you have questions about Obama’s meteoric rise with the DNC and his questionable fundraising abilities, please go over to thecityedition.com and read “Bamboozling the American Electorate again”. I don’t have a link but it can be found by googling it or through a link on the main page under politics. Its a summary of everything that has brought us to this point with Obama and of course, Karl Rove’s name is all over it. The story has links to back up every single point it makes and its important to note that hardly a single fact in that article has been covered by the media although its all there, easily verifiable and practically takes the reader by the hand to explain everything that has transpired up to today. I’m still awaiting word on Obama’s new position as chair of the Senate Banking Committee in regard to their sanctions of Iran for their nuclear ambitions. You’d think we’d hear from the true members of that committee by the media but “crickets”…..
Did you read Obama’s first book? It’s actually quite revealing. No Obama
OK, i tried to goggle the article I cited and it was hard to find , here is the link
http://www.thecityedition.com/Pages/Archive/Winter08/2008Election.html
Yes.
And that is the good news.
The really bad aspects of Obama are scary as hell.
Pat Johnson, on July 27th, 2008 at 12:02 am Said:
katiebird: No Carvel out in KS? They sell a frozen concoction that looks like a cake but is really ice cream. You have to eat it quickly since it melts. No heavy cream, for God’s sake! Kool Whip!
I must step in here…cream is a natural food. A gift to us, you might say, for occasional use. Kool Whip??
A chemical nightmare created bi a lab somewhere.
Always chose the more natural product.
Debra, don’t project your racism on us. go away..
Just want to say thanks for great article and wonderful comments. So right on! Nobama is very scary.
What also is clear is that he loathes older white women. It’s not hard to figure out why, once you grasp his denigration of his mother and grandmother, and his related (compensatory) glorification of his father. The Dunham family dynamics must have been quite … interesting. The result? A walking psych experiment, and a very presumptuous Democratic nominee.
bemused,
Very good points. I’m not the “shrinking” type of psychologist either. My field is developmental psychology. Many developmental theories are highly relevant psychological disorders though. But of course I’m just speculating and since Obama is a public figure it’s OK for people on a blog to do that. Let’s face it, anyone who is interested in people is going to try to figure out why they behave the way they do. But certainly, I’m not an expert.
If the note he left at the wailing wall is actually correct..”Protect me from Pride and Despair”…These are the two fluctuating conditions of the Narcissist. Also, it is everyone else’s fault., as well as compulsive lying and taking credit for other people’s work.
Hey bboomer, if Dr. Frist can diagnose terri schiavo via videotape, I have no doubt your analysis of Obama is spot on
btw, have you seen the show on Starz I think, Head Case??? the print she has in her office of the child crying is priceless….
bmc,
Thanks for identifying yourself as the source of the body language links. Your comment was really the impetus for me to sit down and write this post. I’ve been wanting to do it for ages. I added your name to the post. Thanks again!!
” … if Dr. Frist can diagnose terri schiavo via videotape, I have no doubt your analysis of Obama is spot on.”
I don’t doubt it, either. Of course, Frist’s speculations were off the wall. But psychiatric diagnoses rely almost exclusively on observed and reported behavior, which is exactly what Barky is so generously providing. Nobody here is treating him, as far as I can tell, so there’s nothing at all wrong with speculating.
ann on…I was joking…I think BB’s analysis is right on target…
Hey, Gary–I know. But I never can resist pointing out exactly why it’s OK to speculate. no offense intended–peace, mon.
I am so glad to see this post. The idea that Obama may be a narcissist has been floating around the comment sections quite a bit. In fact the links to the videos and the analysis on his body language was also in a NQ comment section. The commenter in that case said she was also a psychologist. Anytime the description appears in the comments, as in the comments here, come forward as either therapists or psych nurses or people who’ve had family members that were diagnosed with NPD. This goes beyond thinking he’s just a jerk. The people who claim that “all politicians are narcissists” miss the point. Most politicians DO have big egos and are obviously have the confidence. The disturbing thing about Obama is that he appears to have a clinical mental illness.
funny how we become a third world country,,, CNN & MSNBC would report on other country election how the dictator would rig the election, or force the election, with Barack Obama CNN & Msnbc or forcing this election,, they know and had Meeting on viewers & people who can not think for them selves
Look at this we became a reality tv show, like most of the has nothing to do with Reality,
CNN , Msnbc are proud to help rig this election, look at the News,, it shows the fact,,
“Barack Obama plain lifted off, Obama plain has landed, Barack Obama went to the bathroom, Barack Obama Picked his Nose and he did it like he was already the President,
EveryTime Barack speaks Wolf blitzer & Keith Oberman get an erection.
And let know forget Anderson Cooper , who has a life size cut out of barack obama he sleeps with, …….
how about obama’s whining to the troops that they only watch Fox News and suggesting that President Bush mandates Fox….when it is the troops who choose to watch it…so bitter
“1. has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)”
Don’t know if this counts be Obama is constantly claiming the accomplishments of others as his own. For instance “the banking committee, whixh is my committee”. He claimed to have worked on the imigration bill, etc. This list is long on bills that he takes credit for when he didn’t have anything at all to do with them.
Also, he constantly attaches himself to every important event in history. He was conceived as a result of Selma. His grandfather freed the holocaust victims, etc.
Very, very important to this man to take credit for important event that has ever happened in this country.
With regard to Michelle–perhaps Obama needed her at the beginning but he is so carried away with himself now that he would gladly put her under that bus. Obama said if Michelle was the only woman I had ever met I would hate women. Michelle could be permanently banished to Chicago because Obama can’t take the competition.
GREAT POST and great comments!
I think you very well might be right about this. There is almost certainly a PD, but I dunno if its NPD… but something is there…. It does seem that the Europeans have not fallen for it though, as much as the Obama camp and the American media would like us to believe.
just check out this stuff… NYT, the Times, Der Spiegel… not good lol.
http://texashillblog.wordpress.com/2008/07/26/change-the-world-cant-believe-in-obama-flops-overseas/
OK so Barack Obama is “incredibly arrogant, haughty, full-of-himself, and entitled.” The alternative is what? John McCain stands for most of the ideas and values of the Republican Party. Rather than persue his “straight talk express”, John McCain has altered his positions to reflect most of George W. Bush’s views. Americans just might elect John McCain because they are more like him than Barack Obama.
coastcontact,
Are you joking? The alternative is not to give Obama the nomination. Have an open convention, place Hillary’s name in nomination–and John Edwards too. Let the delegates vote for the person they believe can win in November. That’s the usual process.
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Obama’s Narcissism
By Jack Kelly
In a news conference Wednesday in Sderot, an Israeli city subject to frequent rocket attacks by Palestinian terrorists, Sen. Barack Obama addressed the doubts many Israelis have about his commitment to their security.
“In terms of knowing my commitments, you don’t have to just look at my words, you can look at my deeds,” Mr. Obama said. “Just this past week, we passed out of the Senate Banking Committee, which is my committee, a bill to call for divestment from Iran, as a way of ratcheting up the pressure to ensure that they don’t obtain a nuclear weapon.”
Sen. Obama is not a member of the Senate Banking, Housing and Urban Affairs Committee. He had nothing to do with the advancement of the bill he referred to.
Barack Obama has the thinnest resume of any major party candidate for president in history, and this isn’t the first time he’s tried to pad it. But his false claim in Sderot goes beyond puffery.
“For him to fabricate the claim, out of whole cloth, that the Senate Banking Committee is his committee strikes me as another sign of Obama’s megalomania,” said Web logger John Hinderaker (Power Line). “That, plus more evidence that he is totally at sea without a teleprompter.”
Megalomania and dissimulation are shared by Sen. Obama’s staff. The highlight of his foreign tour was his speech Thursday at the Siegessaule (Victory Column) in Berlin, attended by two hundred thousand adoring Germans.
“It’s not going to be a political speech,” a senior foreign policy adviser to Sen. Obama had told reporters Tuesday. “When the president of the United States goes and gives a speech, it is not a political speech or a rally.”
After a reporter reminded the adviser that Sen. Obama isn’t president of the United States, the adviser said: “he is going to talk about the issues as an individual…not as a candidate, but as an individual, a senator.”
But senators traveling abroad on fact-finding missions haven’t in the past held massive outdoor rallies. The Obama campaign printed up leaflets urging people to come to the event. Film makers were on hand to record it for possible use in television commercials.
Sen. Obama traveled with the largest entourage of any non-president in history. The foreign policy advisers, campaign aides, advance staff and Secret Service agents filled 20 vehicles in motorcades. And that doesn’t count the more than 50 American journalists — including the anchors of all three television network news shows — who accompanied him in Europe, Israel and Jordan.
Sen. Obama’s foreign tour has received massive, overwhelmingly favorable news coverage, but it isn’t clear how much he’s benefiting from it. In the Gallup and Rasmussen tracking polls, his slim lead over Sen. John McCain actually shrunk a little during the week.
This may be in part because the news coverage of the trip has been so over the top that other journalists have remarked critically about it, and comedian Jon Stewart lampooned it in a skit. A recent Rasmussen survey indicated twice as many Americans think journalists are trying to help Mr. Obama win than think journalists are offering unbiased coverage.
And it may be in part because of what Sen. Obama has been saying. He was spellbinding in his Siegessaule speech, as he customarily is when working from a prepared text. But he often stumbles without one.
In an interview with Lara Logan of CBS broadcast July 20, he said he expects to be dealing with foreign leaders “over the next eight to ten years.” As ABC’s Jake Tapper noted, this would require repeal of the 22nd Amendment.
The most dangerous thing about having a narcissist in a position of power is his unwillingness — perhaps his inability — to ever admit error. In response to questions from ABC’s Terry Moran and CBS’ Katie Couric, Sen. Obama acknowledged the troop surge in Iraq has produced dramatic improvements, but said he still would oppose it. He acknowledged Gen. David Petraeus and Iraqi Prime Minister Nuri al Maliki oppose the rigid 16-month timetable he’s set for withdrawal of troops from Iraq, but said he’d stick to it. This brought rebukes from the Washington Post, which described his strategic vision as “eccentric” in an editorial Wednesday, and by USA Today Thursday:
“Why can’t Obama bring himself to acknowledge the surge worked better than he and other skeptics, including this page, thought it would?” the editorial asked. “What does that stubbornness say about the kind of president he’d be?”
Yes, he’s dangerous.
I don’t think that the banking committee gaffe, for example, was a conscious lie The crap he spews–his parents met at Selma, his uncle liberated Auschwitz, etc.–I think that, when he says this kind of thing, he actually believes it. Because he’s so great, you know, that all kinds of wonderful things obviously are associated with him. He’s had his thumb in every fabulous pie.
I’m guessing that the increasing stress of campaigning with what at some level he understands is grossly inadequate preparation, has rendered him mildly delusional. The danger with someone like him is that he will become increasingly defensive and brittle as the pressure mounts. It’s not going to be the least bit amusing when Ahmadinejad gets testy and all Barky can come up with is something along the line of, “Can’t I just eat my waffle?”
All that, plus he feeds on the adoration of authoritarian thugs. He’s a disaster in the making.
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millercharley, sweetie–actually, you have to possess a certain amount of narcissism in order to be a healthy human being. The problem with Obama’s narcissism is that it appears to be dangerously excessive; and it appears to be getting worse.
Besides being way, way, way way in over his head in this fantasy that he has the judgment and experience to actually be POTUS, thus CINC of our Armed Forces, Mr. Obama seems to be a megalomaniac as well as addict who’s spinning further out of ethical and intellectual control.
His excesses have become frightening and ludicrous. For example, thinking that this campaign tour of Europe and those whistle-stops in Afghanistan and Iraq actually now give him that foreign policy experience he needs? Please.
And his outright lies, such as claiming to be on the Senate banking committee?
The guy needs help. Regrettably, he’s surrounded by enablers.
Should, God forbid, he be elected, he’ll be eaten alive in the world’s political shark pool. Then, we all, including those who will have voted for him but lack the insight to understand the danger of that, will suffer.
bostonboomer, I treasure this post. It’s an answered prayer.
I have been throughly exposed to what someone with NPD has done and can do in everyday life. To see this presumptive candidate show those very same traits right in front of my tv eyes, while he’s making a play for POTUS and is hailed as a saviour, makes me tremble. I lose my breath.
I encourage everybody to read the material in the links. Please. Please. We don’t need one more catastrophe falling on our beloved country.
Thanks, bostonboomer.
The looks Obama gives Clinton are chilling and almost frightening. You can see the hate written all over his face. What always made me laugh was how Obama supporters kept trying to say he did not give her finger when it was 100% obvious he did. My sister and I have viewed the video from different angles, and he most certainly gave Clinton the finger. And CNN and other news orgs never reported it. I find Obama to be a classless pig.
Identity Crisis
Eric Ericson studied under Sigmund Freud and wrote a number of excellent psychology books and biographies. Ericson originated the term “Identity Crisis” and it was a central theme in his book “Identity: Youth and Crisis”.
According to Ericson, people, in the process of growing up, pass through various stages or crises, and the outcome of each crisis is resolved in a pattern of decisions which ultimately defines the person. A person’s identity is normaly resolved during the teen and young adult years.
I have often thought that Obama is still very much trying to resolve who he is, even though he is now in his mid-forties. That would surely mean that his identity is unresolved, and he is therefore extremely immature.
I read a lot of psy, and Boomer’s contribution is most excellent, and most appreciated.
It’s nice to see the truth.
Trouble is, the Mainstream media will never, never echo these observations. They want their man to win, regardless of the cost.
I love IT!
its sad when you ask people who they are voting for and why
they answer:
“bo because they want “change”"
they have no idea what they are actually doing if they elect bo as POTUS.
Oh My God. WHO CARES IF HE’S A SNOB???
The whole reason why George W. was able to win office was based on the stupid notion that our president is supposed to be “one of us.”
“I can have a beer with him, so yea he should be president.”
If anyone should represent the US it should be a snob. I’d rather a narcissist who knows what to do when running a country be our president than an average joe.
As far as throwing people under the bus for political gain, who’s fault is that? He’s playing the game because if he doesn’t the American voter will falsely accuse him of believing in whatever that person said. Jeremiah Wright said some stupid shit and therefore he was denounced. Don’t blame Obama for it. Wright deserved it, as did all the other people he dismissed from his campaign. Doing anything else would be political suicide.
I’m not saying Obama is a saint by any means. He’s a politician. This is what politicians need to do to get elected.
Call him a hypocrite, yes, but don’t get all pissy cuz he’s a little snobby.
Being a black man in the US, no matter how affluent or educated, will always experience racism. He’s entitled to a little narcissism as far as i’m concerned.
Oh lordy I wish I had been around yesterday when this topic was active! Thank you so much for writing this piece bostonboomer. I hope you will consider writing follow ups tying Obama’s words and actions to the clinical definition and literature on NPD. It’s really important to raise awareness on this.
Tremendous comments as well. Swannie I found your post especially valuable. Thank you for sharing your experience and insights.
I really want to comment that an important aspect of NPD is the reifying of the false self. Obama must always be clean and shining and that means that he will have to scapegoat the people around him to bear the ’sins.’ His image must always be above reproach and he will always seek to control that. The quest for power in a solipsistic person – is about being able to control the self image. This is why criticism cannot be tolerated. This is why they project their own behavior, which they will not acknowledge, upon others, and this is why they (the NPD) lays claim to a connection with all great things, and the people around them are denigrated and demeaned in ways petty and great by always being assigned blame or lower traits – the NPD is sliming off on to others – scapegoating.
MIchelle is probably in the cycle of constantly trying to prove her ‘true believer’ status to him.
I hope to see more on this subject. Hopefully I can catch it as an active thread next time.
You’re missing the point, Ojcomputer. He’s not a snob. It goes way beyond that. He’s narcissistic to the point where it’s pathological and he needs psychiatric help. One of my family members is pathologically narcissistic and it’s terrible living with a person like that. They destroy their families and their friends. All of the behaviors that I see in my family member are present in Barack Obama. I think there are several therapists on this blog who agree with the diagnosis.
It also states above that they gravitate toward people who are also dysfunctional. That explains his marriage. She is dysfunctional, too. I think her anger is severe and borders on irrational rage. I’m sure he views her as someone who can confirm and validate his delusions of grandiosity. Her anger probably actually fuels his image of himself, so it helps him.
I’ve thought since very early on that he’s just mentally ill. He’s got an insatiable need to feel important, feel popular, feel powerful, probably to cover up his own self loathing, which is what fuels the narcissist.
How can people elect somebody who’s mentally ill to be President. Hitler was mentally ill and look what happened there. Obama’s going to destroy this country. We’re going to see the second coming of the Great Depression. Economic analysts have gone over his plans and declared them dangerous, so WAKE UP PEOPLE!
this should be covered by the media….awesome piece
Did I deserve to run into this blog? YESSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Finally, a community that can see beyond Obama’s charisma and pseudo-charm. Visit http://www.mulloverthis.wordpress.com for more on Obama.
Possibly you’d like to also address Barack’s tendency to blow off personal commitments of charity as well:
http://politicalinquirer.com/2008/07/27/obama-honor-your-commitments/
This stuff goes beyond the normal two faces of a politician.
I have a lot of policy disagreements with John McCain; but in this area, he and his wife are first class:
http://gatewaypundit.blogspot.com/2008/07/obama-talks-about-lifting-child-in.html
Thank you for this article. There have been many of us behind the scenes whispering this where we could. I am so glad that someone finally shouted that the “emperor has no clothes!”.
Also, given his NPD, it’s no wonder that many of his followers exhibit signs of Collective Narcissism.
Barack obama & John McCain both are scraping the bottom of the barrel on candidates, IF YOU WANT THINGS TO STAY THE SAME VOTE FOR MCCAIN, IF YOU WANT THINGS TO GET 1OO TIME WORSE, VOTE FOR OBAMA
But both candidates are pretty worthless, by far,
The only difference is Barack Obama has CNN & Msnbc doing its propaganda for barack obama, You got to admit its pretty bad with the news media, barack has taken off, barack has landed, barack is eating a sandwich, Barack just took a shit, barack just wipped with twice with 2 ply toilet paper, but they are not being unfair according wolf blitzer, Anderson cooper, keith oberman, are working together, with barack obama, simple minded people who are in to these reality TV,, that has nothing to do with reality, They follow who is favored, what ever News Media want them to win, people in america can not think for them self,, they have to see highlights, who going to win, who ever make the most money or looks good on camera is all that matters, Of course Not who is better for this country, American do not think that way not at all they follow who ever famous,
[...] he is arrogant and exudes an elitist attitude. Bostonboomer, in answer to the question “What is Wrong With Barack Obama?” said: Well, in the first place he is incredibly arrogant, haughty, full-of-himself, and [...]
It’s kind of sad, actually to see this posted.
When almost the exact same posts were made about Hillary in the past few months, accusing her of having NPD, it was dismissed as sexist screed.
Hell, it was said about Bill Clinton, and Hillary supporters denounced as right wing agitprop.
But, what doe sit matter – my comments are likely to be deleted, like my other ones, which were polite, and corrected inaccuracies that HRC supporters were repeating.
[...] after reading Bostonboomer’s wonderful psychoanalytical piece here on the Confluence named What is wrong with Barack Obama? , Obama’s natal chart will make a lot more [...]
If you don’t want to be called a racist, just say “jerk.”
What is with that pose of his, where he raises his head and peers with half shut eyes down his nose? Is he trying to recreate a Roman emperor pose?
It only makes him look more unattractive than he has already shown himself to be. One of his handlers should call him on it and tell him to knock it off! We are not impressed!
Upperclass? Hardly! It takes more than having money to be that. It takes character. He doesn’t get the difference between having it and being one!
[...] all around arrogance, ego, and narcissism [...]
[...] no kidding. Lots of us ordinary folks have already figured out that Obama is a malignant narcissist who couldn’t care less about average Americans. It’s a little late for “senior [...]
[...] a Chicago machine nominee who is as corrupt as any Bush Republican and as authoritarian and narcissistic as Bush himself. In a year when any Dem candidate should be winning in a landslide, November looks [...]
[...] a Chicago machine nominee who is as corrupt as any Bush Republican and as authoritarian and narcissistic as Bush himself. In a year when any Dem candidate should be winning in a landslide, November looks [...]
[...] the mother requested. In other words this was a purely political move made to help none other than Mr. NPD himself. And I don’t think that Obama is going to have much influence at the State Department [...]
[...] in company with other like-minded people. I have come to the conclusion that Barack Obama is a pathological narcissist who will use anyone, say anything, do anything to get what he wants. In my opinion, he is utterly [...]